Search the Internet Here...

Custom Search

Materials here are free but we depend on contributions from viewers & readers like you!

8.02.2014

Some Interesting Info From My Client About A Certain Pastor

While watching TV news about Eric Garner's death, I mentioned about the fact that I live close to where that death took place in Staten Island. The images on screen were then focusing on what a pastor was telling us the audience on what he plans to do so that justice would be served on Garner's death as soon as possible. My client, who is a retired real estate lawyer, shared how bothered he is watching at the face of that very prominent pastor (I won't name him here as I'm not a journalist. I know I have to verify first from other sources the veracity of what my client has shared me, which I'm now sharing here to put issues in a better perspective). My client recalls and went out of his way to describe me circumstances how he met and dealt with this pastor over 40 years ago. 

According to my client, this pastor would go about harassing business owners in communities where black families live around then. He would bring people in front of these stores, and demonstrate against the owners' questionable practices in doing business. Of course, that would mean losing business for the owners. And the pastor would do it primarily to make owners shell out money for his projects. My client had a client who got so scared after having been approached by the pastor, and had no option but to contact my client for his lawyering help. He met up with this pastor, and offered to give him cash in exchange for quitting the premises of the business owner where he's doing business. Or else, he would provide for the money for the cops to come over, do their work, and deal with him accordingly. This pastor won't budge so quickly. He wanted to make sure if my client's serious with his word. My client told him he's serious, and he's ready to call the cops to deal with him. The pastor would budge eventually and accede to my client's request. 

Strangely, my client would still remember such things. He's told me many things about how he was involved with politics and politicians a long time ago. One story he told me once was that he was being asked to shell out something so he'd be nominated for a vacancy to a judge-ship post here in New York, but the idea appalled him.  It's a tit-for-tat situation, just like most situations in regular life we all face as we grow up as social beings in this part of the big city. In process, I'm learning a lot from him, admittedly. I once remarked to him my wonder why beggars love to approach me and ask money from me. He told me, in reply, that I looked like someone who could be fooled by the show being put up by such street characters. That got me into thinking. I've since then stopped shelling out money to beggars and the like. I'm now giving out whatever I can afford to share in some other means (just as to assuage my guilt over seeing disturbing signs of poverty here in New York City).

7.21.2014

Selling a 1958-Released 'Lady Sings The Blues' Book Online


I continue to get surprised every time a book buyer buys a book from among my listings in my online storefronts, which I myself would have second thoughts of buying for myself. This refers to the recent sale I made through my Amazon.com storefront, which has made me happy, as well. Only someone who knows what (s)he wants would buy books like this one, which I said and described to be really in a 'delicate copy' and in a foxed condition at that. I had to tape the spine together as the pages are getting detached from one another. I wonder if this copy would still manage additional handling from more readers. Oh, well, I'm taking chances that the buyer would decide to keep, read the book, preserve it, or even share it with someone when (s)he's done with it. I'm sure I won't feel bad if (s)he decides to return it and get refunded with the payment (which would affect my rating as an online seller with Amazon.com, I suppose)....But I do hope (s)he won't think like I took advantage of the sale online...I was upfront and honest with my description when I listed the book in my Amazon.com storefront in early 2011. I originally got the book from one of my walks in the streets of Brooklyn. The book stayed listed until this sale came through. And I'm grateful for that.

6.21.2014

Of Knowing A Filipino Who Has Really Made It Rich Here In NYC

I've been here in New York City (NYC) for over 8 years now and I am happy to share that I've met and known some Filipinos who have made it rich in this city. Additionally, I've met and known so many other rich people here, some of whom I've worked for as I've done part-time gigs with them to eke out a living in this very expensive city to live in. I've met some who are actually billionaires but they behave very ordinarily like normal individuals. I realize that NYC's set of structure and regulatory environment allows such lives to thrive here, and the narrative I'm sharing here is repeated regularly in many other individual lives in this city. He will remain nameless here to protect his privacy as I've not asked his permission to write about my thoughts on the friendship he and I have. We normally see each other with some other common friends, and I'm grateful to have known him better each time I see him.

He's someone who has owned and managed at least 11 units of condominium units located right in Manhattan, if I recall the number right. Do your research and you'll see he's easily a millionaire. I understand that most of these properties are 1 or 2 bedroom units in walk-up apartment buildings. He's a very hardworking fellow, single, and happy with what he's been doing with his assets. In fact, he and I would talk about our respective businesses, and I see that he's got an empathetic heart as well as a really good pair of hearing ears. He really listens to you, even if you get a sense that he's always busy --- he's got 3 cellphones that he uses for different purposes. During our talks, he would excuse himself, take calls, and do texting. And he would come back to me and just go about talking with me as if there were no earlier interruptions that had come and go. 

Of course, he's also a tightwad, which trait is nothing extraordinary among really rich people. I see that as a common trait among these people, and it's something that I have to practice all the time myself. He would do his food shopping for really cheap food items at the right locations in Manhattan at times when these food items are sold at really bargain prices, i.e., when they're already been the leftovers from those most buyers have chosen from early in the day. 

He would still be doing part-time jobs even when he has already owned and been renting out at least 11 condominium units in Manhattan (I know they're mostly in the east side of the island). I think it's mainly for cashflow reasons, as you know very well that ups and downs in business can be a challenge to manage. He would hire specialists and helpers so that his condominium units would be cleaned, maintained, and in their spick-and-span state for renters. He tells me that he has to get them rented out all the time so he would have cash flow from them---it's a very serious and complicated business to own and run real estate properties here in Manhattan where you'll see some of the most expensive properties in the whole world. In fact, a lot of owners would hire the services of real estate firms to manage their properties for them. Such is not the case with my friend, who is always up and running in managing his properties. 

He's also one of the few guys I met who knows and understands that real and hard cash in NYC are in the hands of a few well connected individuals, some of whom live in Staten Island. He's dealt with some of them when he needed to borrow some cash to help him bridge some of his monthly financial obligations---such loans are normally not available through banks, and would just be loaned out to those who have the assets to back up such amounts of money. I know he's paid off the the lender, and has since then been focusing in growing the size of his portfolio.

He would tell me in one of our conversations that a lot of people here in NYC are not used to dealing with landlords of these Manhattan-based apartments whose looks look like him and who are from the Philippines. He has to assert his interests and take action so people would take him seriously and would do what he wants. He's got his share of problems, which are common in situations in life that are worth pursuing for long term gains and benefits. He continues to deal with court cases that he has to attend to personally so his side would be heard clearly and right by the judge and the members of the juries for each of these cases. I have to know more about the details of these cases some other time.

He gives encouragement to me mainly in the form of his presence and his friendship. He tells me that he used to do several full time jobs many years ago. He's got his heart where his personal interests lie -- in his very intelligent and practical mind honed by experience in NYC, which asset I seldom see these days from most people I meet here.

6.10.2014

On Getting Complimented Because I'm Strong

Strength training is integral to the overall upkeep of the state of your health. It's even a must that you do strength training as you grow older, or else, your muscles will die sooner. I take all the chance to work out so I'll have a stronger body, at least. I'm seeing, too, that to do this is never easy.

And I dislike getting complimented for being strong, which could have been a result of my genes and my constant efforts to work out whenever I can. This is true even if the compliment is delivered sincerely and coming from a good person who delivers the line in a non-malicious tone. I know I'm strong and I enjoy, still, being one. I know this strength won't last my lifetime, and since I'm still relatively young (and I take time to take care of myself), I remain strong.

This post was inspired by thoughts that came to me while helping out in moving and throwing away items like queen size mattresses, mattress boxes, cabinets, bookcases and the like from the third floor apartment in the house where I live. My landlord, who is also one of my roommates, owns the building and was unable to get help from those he contacted on Craigslist.org to help out. I can understand why those guys won't help out. This kind of work sucks. And no matter how big the payment amount for such types of work, you don't feel compensated well. And what's very annoying about it is that the one who used to live there probably planned things out to turn this way---she knew it would take more efforts other than hers and her close friends to bring those heavy stuff from that upper floor apartment. It's a common behavior I've been noticing from people who have led relatively privileged lives and who have no appreciation for real, physical hard work (hence, they choose to do other types of jobs and in the process, look down on jobs that call for physical strength to be completed every work day).

You'd see people who have been mainly leveraging their relative strengths to make money (and make a living in the process). And you can't help but see the contempt from others who despise these types of work just to make a living. Other than the measly pay rates given to these people, you must have noticed how these people are just considered mere additional materials so certain despicable projects would be finished? No wonder people who are in the various trades like to get themselves unionized whenever they get the chance----leaders and influential take advantage whenever they get the chance. It's how the system has worked ever since.

Of course, you can always say it has to be done with a good team, especially with heavy works like these that need the combined strengths of persons so the project would be completed. But who, really, appreciates that? Such work can only appreciated if done with majority of the members who volunteer from a community (or a small group, or a neighborhood), with every one giving share without getting paid money-wise when the project is over.


For now, I rather keep my strength and use it to help out whenever I get the chance or whenever I'm asked to provide help. You don't need to pay me but keep in mind that I reserve the right to refuse to handle works that I dislike doing. Just say 'thank you' and keep away from complimenting me for my strength. This strength always has to be seen in the context of time, and its main purpose in making me lead a beautiful, meaningful every day life in this part of the whole wide universe. 

Search The Net!!

Custom Search
taking lead now (39) NYC (28) take it as it is (23) travel (21) philippines (19) Filipinos in NYC (14) books (13) life (11) leading this life according to God's purposes for me (10) book reviews (7) food (7) getting a life (7) art (6) book (6) filipino films (6) love life (6) Filipino communities in NYC (5) Manhattan (5) Staten Island (5) artists (5) being strategic (5) business (5) people in nyc (5) Religious Activities (4) artworks (4) being cunning (4) being true to yourself (4) being yourself (4) freelance work (4) jerome baladad photos (4) part time jobs (4) Brooklyn (3) being tactical (3) cooking (3) dyerohmeb (3) getting jobs (3) immigration (3) museums (3) prayer gathering (3) recipes (3) unique people (3) 42nd St (2) 5th avenue (2) Bridges (2) Brooklyn Bridge (2) Chinese food (2) Filipinos (2) Manhattan Bridge (2) Philippines as US colony (2) cloisters (2) dancing (2) death (2) e-books (2) employment (2) guidelines in keeping your job (2) jobs (2) managing in difficult economic periods (2) moving on (2) nature of work (2) one ordinary day (2) parks (2) personal growth and development (2) philosophy (2) photography (2) prayers (2) sharing (2) tagalog (2) walking (2) work (2) Ako'y sa Iyo (1) City Hall (1) DFA (1) Dumbo (1) FIT (1) Filipino choirs in the US (1) Filipino literature (1) Fr John Azzali (1) Ft. Greene (1) Governor's island (1) HR work (1) Hudson River (1) Ika'y Akin Lamang (1) Italian food (1) J.M. Coetzee (1) Josephine Tey (1) LES (1) Lady Liberty (1) MOMA (1) Napoleon Hill (1) Philippine-US relations (1) Pipilotti Rist (1) Project Gutenberg (1) SUNY (1) Sakay (1) Serendipity (1) Simbang Gabi (1) St Patrick's Cathedral (1) Statue of Liberty (1) Sts Sergius and Bacchus Parish (1) The Forgotten War (1) The Philippines (1) Think and Grow Rich (1) US visa (1) US wealth (1) Williamsburg (1) YouTube (1) advocacy (1) agribusiness (1) animals (1) art gallery (1) atlantis (1) being prepared (1) black (1) blind men (1) boni mitchell (1) bookselling (1) both sides now (1) candles (1) caregiving as a work (1) christmas tree (1) clouds (1) colonization (1) colonizer (1) colony (1) cornfields (1) couples (1) cuchifritos (1) customers (1) darkness (1) democracy (1) design (1) disability (1) disgrace (1) dragons (1) dynamics of discrimination (1) economic growth of the Philippines (1) entertainment (1) entrepreneurship (1) family (1) fashion (1) father (1) fear (1) festivities (1) fiction (1) films (1) flcker (1) flowers (1) freelancer (1) friends (1) fun (1) galleries (1) gambling (1) getting a US visa (1) globalization (1) google (1) gothic (1) grief (1) happiness (1) honesty (1) hudson river park (1) i believe i can fly (1) income (1) international cuisine (1) labor market (1) leading an honest life (1) leaving las vegas (1) life in an island (1) living (1) living alone (1) living in an island (1) loving yourself (1) metropolitan museum (1) motivational (1) net-worth (1) nevada (1) novenas (1) nuggets of wisdom (1) online storefront (1) outlook (1) peppermill (1) philippine government (1) prayer meeting (1) quotes (1) real lighted candles (1) reno (1) reverse migration (1) sayings (1) search for meaning in life (1) selling (1) solitary life (1) st paul the apostle prayer community (1) sunset (1) tapestry (1) technology (1) thomas jefferson (1) tips (1) traditions (1) unicorn (1) upstate manhattan (1) war films (1) war movies (1) wisdom of our ancestors (1) wiva waiver program (1) zen (1)

Creative Commons License