On A Filipino Trans-Sexual In New York City

I'll consider her as a friend [she'll remain nameless here, in the meantime], more or less, as we have a lot of similar interests and we go to similar events and parties in New York City. She's studied nursing here (just like what others have pursued before without checking if that's really what they wanted to do most of their lives), and has been working hard, it seems to me, so that she'll become wealthier more than she was when she was still in the Philippines. I know she'd undergo operations on her body, including that for a great pair of boobs and a nose job --- they look pretty on her.

"When you're a transsexual in the Philippines and you have no money, you'll go dying soon. But if you a trannie with wealth and properties there, people look up to you," she said with confidence. I'm just not sure if I'll agree with this statement --- not all people are blinded by wealth I know for sure. But she sure is really being smart by making sure she's investing her earnings for the tough times that would eventually come anytime soon (and unexpected). She's so sure and aware that she'll get aged and clients won't be showing up as the same rate as they are currently.

We were again in a small party that night that's hosted by a common friend who lives somewhere in Jackson Heights. She came late and would have no qualms sharing us details of her latest escapades. As usual, she's being flamboyant again. I remember her being this way in the parties I've attended in her place. There are other women from the Philippines in the party that night - she's easily the prettiest of them all.

"I just got back from a threesome. One was a real woman who's the girlfriend of one of my friends. I had to work on her, too as I went on to provide pleasure to my friend," she would just say matter-of-fact manner.

She would even show us her flaccid penis, which she said measured 7 inches. I just don't know what to say about this as I was shocked (I don't really need to see someone's penis in a group). I just hope she just wanted to be upfront about these matters. She says that she's been off hormonal medicines lately and that's why she's able to get erections (and engage with her clients more aggressively; she'd describe that most of them would like to be rimmed and be penetrated, too). She'll even show us wads of money she's earned for the night before she showed up in the party. She must have been really working hard. She says that she can easily earn a thousand dollars a night; there are clients who would even give her $1,000 for her services.

I just dislike the way she behaves towards people who earn smaller money than she does, including myself. Whenever she sees the chance, she'll go out of her way to put people down especially because they'll do certain things in leading their own lives. She was surprised to learn that I'd take walks to and fro in part of my destinations in NYC, which I personally don't mind. I was just thankful I didn't feel offended by her surprised remarks. I'm sure I'm not excited at all by her lifestyle - it's her life and choice to lead her life she wants it to be and she will be responsible for the outcomes just like each one of us. I think it's her being from the Visayas in the Philippines (I hope I'm just wrong with this) where most people I know would go out of their way to outsmart each other mainly by showing off signs of their accumulated and earned wealth. I just don't want to play these silly games on levels of earnings anymore.

I'm just sure people are envious of her; they pay deference to her as she can easily outdo them in terms of making money here in NYC. She can easily, quickly earn that much (I've no way of verifying amounts, though but she has said she has invested in many real properties in Cagayan de Oro City in the Philippines), it seems to most people, such that others would have to work a month just to earn the same amount. She still has a regular day job, though. Additionally, she'd even say she thinks of her clients as being just of the same kind - they all just want to have fun and are willing to pay the price for it.

I just hope I haven't passed bad judgment on her by writing on this here. There are other Filipino transsexuals here in NYC, who lead other directions with their respective lives. Her personality and experience have to be written about as we don't normally encounter the kind regularly. I know I'll be seeing more of her in future events and gatherings.